I have the ridiculous psychology that is eager to express myself, actually has no ability and likes to shirk responsibility. Any goal I set will not be implemented for a long time. Listening to others’ advice will come in left and right ear, what should I do?
If you feel that if you want to integrate into a group, you must first unite with this group. Everything is based on collective interests, and then helps each other. You can integrate into this group. If you are always doing it, it is difficult to integrate into a group. of
So first of all, you need you to be able to improve your ability. Don’t think about integrating and accommodating others. First of all, you must strictly ask yourself.
If you know the mistakes, you can change it, be good and be good, treat and tolerate others. It is recommended that the book “group book governance” can be read often.
Someone’s body is easy, more with colleagues, and more with friends.
One: Don’t feel that you are the core and the protagonist. Starting things from collective, not independent and selfish.
: Don’t lose your own characteristics, not a complete obedience to the collective, have your own thoughts, and reflect your value in the collective.
: Looking at it from different perspectives, not just care about your own thinking and understand how to understand.
four: One of the people in the collective is difficult, and the power can help him. Don’t ignore it because of fear of trouble.
: You must know how to be tolerant. When the contradiction appears, as long as one person steps back first, the relationship will be one step deeper. But not tolerant of tolerance, you must also solve the mistakes of others.
: Learn to understand, no one is perfect, as long as it is not too big, it must be tolerant.
Finally: I wish you success.